Lawrence (Larry) Lambert was born
August 11, 1928 in Meigs County (Jackson), Ohio, and was
reared in the townships of Wellston and Springfield, Ohio. He
was the eldest of fourteen children born to his father Donald
Lambert (b. 1900), who passed away in 1989. His birth-mother
was Helen Grimes, who passed away from complications giving
birth to his brother, Dwight. Donald's second wife, Anne, who
passed away in 1987, birthed the other twelve siblings.
Lawrence and Elaine (Cox) first met
in 1944 while attending Moorefield High School. After a year
of separation, the two were reunited in 1947, and after a
brief courtship were engaged and then married in 1948. The
couple began their new life together residing in Springfield,
Ohio. Over the next twelve years, the family also lived in the
Ohio towns of Ironton, Haverhill, and Xenia until migrating to
Fort Myers, Florida in 1960. During the tenure in Ohio, Larry
was employed with International Harvester (assembly lineman),
Edison Ohio Electric Company (field operations), Omar Bread
Company (Home Delivery Route Rep), and Western Southern
Insurance Company (Agent). Elaine held positions as a loan
company office manager as well as a bookkeeper with several
companies.
On November 6, 1948, their first of
five children, Steven, was born. Four years later (1952),
their first daughter, Becky, was born, followed by Marsha
(1957), Thomas (1958), and Judy (1963).
In 1960, the family relocated to Fort
Myers, Florida just in time to be greeted by Hurricane Donna,
which wreaked historical devastation across much of southern
Florida, the eye passing through the then small township. That
year, the Pittsburgh Pirates, who then spring-trained in Fort
Myers, became World Champions by defeating the New York
Yankees in game seven of the World Series off Bill Mazeroski's,
ninth-inning, leadoff, home run over the left-center wall of
Forbes Field.
Professionally, from 1960 through
1976, Larry was engaged in insurance, automobile, and
motivational sales. For seven years (1977-1984), he was a
scheduling coordinator for Festival of Praise (Thurlow Spurr,
Concert Ministries, Inc). For the next entire year Larry and
Elaine ministered deliverance out of their home for which they
received love-gifts, while attending Calvary Assembly of God
in Winter Park, FL, and leading a cell group from the church.
The following year they answered the call to enter into
full-time ministry (pastoral initially, then itinerant),
relocating to Jupiter, FL.
As he approached his 48th birthday in
1976, a broken and despondent Larry Lambert, lying prostrate
on his second-story apartment floor under conviction of the
Holy Spirit, reflected soberly and sullenly on the substance
of his life. With rivers of tears soaking the carpet under
him, from the inner recesses of heart, he called out to the
God and Savior his spirit-filled grandmother had so often
talked to him about and joyfully represented forty years and
more ago. He asked Him to forgive him of his squandered life
of sinfulness and self-centeredness and to come into his heart
to abide forever. That day, a defeated, battered and bruised,
shell of a man was genuinely Born Again and radically
transformed inwardly! The man who got up from that floor was
not the same man who lied down there a few hours before—Larry
Lambert was a new creature in Christ Jesus!
The subsequent thirty years would be
a spiritual journey filled with "joy unspeakable and full
of glory," leading ultimately to Beulah Land, passing
nevertheless through many wildernesses fraught with trials,
troubles, tempests, and tumults. The pathways traveled were
lined with intermittent frustrations, detours, dead-ends,
denials, and some ostensible failures. But, those temporal
circumstances were but "momentary light afflictions"
compared to the glory inherited the instant his spirit was at
last liberated from its carnal sarcophagus, when the
corruptible was consumed by the incorruptible, the perishable
by the imperishable, the imperfect by the perfect, the mortal
by the immortal—when the last enemy, Death, was swallowed up
in victory! "O Death, where is your victory? O Death,
where is your sting?"1
What a day that will be when My Jesus
I shall see
When I look upon His Face, the One who saved me by His grace
When He takes me by the hand and leads me through the Promise
Land
What a day, glorious day, that will be!2
In that Fair Land, the one known and
loved by many—as husband, father, grandfather, great-grandfather,
brother, friend, adopted father, spiritual father—has now been
united with the God and Savior who saved him by His grace, and
reunited with a host of souls who preceded him there: his
daughter, Marsha Jayne; his mother, stepmother, and
mother-in-law; father; grandmother; closest brother, Dwight;
friends and acquaintances; all of whom he loved and missed so
very much.
Following his radical transformation,
Apostle Lambert, as prophetic words spoken over him over the
final ten years or so of his life described him, had a
profound passion for Jesus and the biblically revealed
purposes and plans of God for the Church Jesus said He is
building. A frequent touchstone scripture of his was Mark
16:15-20, in which Jesus delineated the "Great
Commission" to the Church, which Larry often lamented was
the "Great Omission" because the elements Jesus
listed that believers should be doing was not being practiced
or advocated in most churches.
Nevertheless, anyone who knew Larry
Lambert would testify that he himself passionately practiced
and adamantly advocated for the practice of all five of the
elements of the Great Commission. Indeed, his passion and
adamancy for the "things of God" made him a
proverbial thorn in the side of some church leaders. He was an
anointed "stirrer upper" in places where complacency
prevailed, and a spark of fire in dry places. In some places,
he was a John-The-Baptist — crying out from the dank dungeon
to which the elite ecclesiastical aristocracy relegated him against
the hidden sin or impure motives of the Herods and Herodiases in
authority in those places. He preached unabashedly polemically
about the essential of believers simply doing precisely what
Jesus taught in the Great Commission and other soliloquies
recorded in the Gospels.
All his life, Dad hated to be alone.
He was gregarious, in some ways, to a fault. Before and after he
surrendered his life to the Lord, he loved to "party"—which
to him, was people gathering together to interact and simply enjoy one
another's company.
He loved to laugh...even more so when
circumstances prevailed in his or others' life that were neither fun
nor funny. He was a master of one-liners—quick-witted commentaries
or comments that would often make people howl laughing, which they often
never forgot, and which would cause them to laugh just as hard years
later in retelling the story as when it happened. He could
almost always find something amusing in just about any scenario —
it was his way of attempting to do something to lighten the load a bit
in people's lives, because he really hated seeing people in pain.
Apparently, Dad somehow passed that quick-wittedness
on to his children, the two males especially. Over the years,
despite my most fervent pledges not to, like many sons, I've found
myself plagiarizing some of Dad's sayings. In his youth and
"BC" (Before Christ) years, his quick-wit was
sometimes a bit sarcastic and caustic, reflecting the
"ornery streak" he always admitted to have lurking
within, even afterbeing saved. But, progressively, through the
years, as his heart was being changed by the indwelling Holy Spirit,
the wit became more "sanctified," though it never ceased,
right up to the final hours when he was lapsing in and out of
consciousness, as reflected in a few of his "last
words," many of which were recorded by family members.
Though his overt opinionatedness
sometimes obscured it, Dad had a deep and abiding love for all his
children and grandchildren, and desperately wanted them all to
be "saved" and come to know the Lord, and thereby
experience, as he had, the Heavenly Father's lavish
lovingkindness, mercy, and grace. Yet, that fixation was by no
means limited to his family. Literally to his final days, he
was nearly obsessed with "getting somebody saved!"
as he would often put it. He was notorious among all who knew
him personally, (oftentimes to the chagrin and aggravation of
family members and friends) for his unashamed and incessant
distribution of "Smiley Tracts" (mini-booklets
containing a simple evangelistic message) to all with whom he
came into contact—from waiters/waitresses, who always got one
as a money-clip for their tip money, to grocery store baggers,
to medical personnel, and everyone in between. Some fondly
tell tales of him planting them in the darnedest places, such
as in mannequin's hands in the show windows of apparel stores,
bank teller windows, phone booths, elevators, and various other
peculiar public places.
Like every human who ever lived, Dad
had his flaws, "flatsides," faults, as well as
failures, concerning which he had no illusions or delusions.
In occasional moments of self-assessment he lamented with
obvious regret about having not always been the man he wished
he had been. Moreover, an unarticulated but palpable inward
pain of an inability to manifest the affectionate he
unquestionably possessed for his children and "Ms.
Lambert," as he sometimes endearingly referred to his
wife, seemed ever-present. As with so many familial
relationships, more physical and verbalized affection
certainly would have been better, yet we all knew he loved
us...deep down. Like so many others, he never saw fatherly or
familial affection modeled, so there was no image to emulate.
(Let the reader not feel bad that these things are being said,
for you see Dad himself often talked about his own shortcomings,
because he wanted people to know that, though fervent
in faith to the point of being considered fanatical by
many nominal believers, he was a real person, filled with the
same humanness and carnal nature as everyone else, as he decried
the phoney piety and self-righteousness displayed by so many mere
religious people who really don't have a viable
relationship with God but only "a form of righteousness,"
i.e., religion.)
In his final months, knowing his time
here was drawing to a close, Dad initiated a solemn time of
conciliation with each of his four living children in which he
requested forgiveness for those aforementioned shortcomings
and any hurt, harm, or pain he may have caused as a result,
which he followed with the question, "Will you
forgive me?" After telling each one he truly did love
them, he then prayed for them and their future, and pronounced
a patriarchal-like blessing over them, and their children, and
their children's children—three generations of offspring. It
was his final benediction upon his children and his posterity.
When Dad had this time of
conciliation with me during my Thanksgiving visit
with Mom and Dad in 2005, just before he prayed for me and
blessed me, he looked me in the eye, and made a point of
saying, "I have prayed for all these years for all my
children and grandchildren and their children to be saved, and
I believe God will honor my prayers." At that moment, I
really did not quite understand what or why he was saying this
with the emphasis that he did. But, on May 3rd, 2006, the
beginnings of the answering of his three decades of prayers
transpired with a phone call at 8:56 PM from his and Mom's
first grandchild who had been suddenly snatched away from us
all nearly thirty-eight years before, which wrought
unspeakable pain and unfathomable void. In that phone call
this father was reunited with his thirty-eight year old
daughter, Angela Marie, who he had not known or had any
contact with for all those years. The next morning when Elaine
told him the incredible, emotion-jarring news as he was
bringing a spoonful of hospital oatmeal to his mouth, he
literally dropped the spoon and burst into tears that
continued flowing for more than fifteen minutes before he
could regain enough composure to say, "Now I can go home
to be with the Lord!" Thirty-three days later...he did.
"Life is but a vapor," Dad
quipped to me at several funerals we attended together over
the last ten years or so. On the other side of June 6, 2006,
it seemed like such a long time he was with us. Now, on this
side, it seems like but a vapor indeed. Time...where did it
go? Fleeting it is indeed. Yet, we must resign to the Wisdom
that there is a time for every purpose under Heaven—a time to
be born and live, a time for the cessation of this life.4
A spiritual warrior fought the final
battle and was called home to a victor's welcome. The final
passing from this earthly realm into the Heavenly came
peacefully at 6:38 AM, Tuesday, June 6, 2006, attended by his
devoted wife, eldest son and daughter, and her husband at his
side. The Lord's Presence was palpable. Several medical
attendants were significantly moved by the Spirit- and
love-filled atmosphere that prevailed in his room as well as
by the various special occurrences that transpired during the
final days and hours. Some of the last written words of
another soldier not long before his home-going seemed to hang
in the air:
For I am already being poured out as
a drink offering, and the time of my departure has come. I
have fought the good fight, I have finished the course, I have
kept the faith; in the future there is laid up for me the
crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the righteous Judge,
will award to me on that day; and not only to me, but also to
all who have loved His appearing. Make every effort to come to
me soon....5
To one, he was a husband; to two, a
son; to five, a father; to fourteen, a grandfather; to twelve,
a great-grandfather; to thirteen, big-brother; to an
uncountable number of others, he was a friend and spiritual
imparter. As with Abraham, to God, he was a friend. Like the
Apostle Paul, he fought the good fight, finished his course,
and kept the faith...now come the rewards. For those who
remain, we all are obliged by his wishes and life to
make every effort to come to him soon, where he now abides
— in eternal presence of the God-Head in Heaven.
"His master said to him, 'Well
done, good and faithful slave. You were faithful with a few
things, I will put you in charge of many things; enter into
the joy of your master.'6
Larry's home-going was preceded by his
second-born daughter's, Marsha Jayne Freischlag, on January
13, 2001. He is survived by his wife of fifty-eight years,
Elaine, two daughters, Becky Marking of Spartanburg, SC, Judy
Nagel of Safety Harbor, FL; two sons, Steven Lambert of
Jupiter, FL and Thomas Lambert of Orlando, FL; and his
ninety-nine year old father-in-law, John W. Cox. God blessed
him with thirteen siblings, fourteen grandchildren, twelve
great-grandchildren, and numerous nieces, nephews, and other
relatives.
A Memorial Service was held on
Saturday, June 10, 2006 at Restoration Church in Spartanburg,
SC, which was attended by more than a hundred family and
friends. A eulogy was delivered by the eldest son, Dr. Steven
Lambert, several friends and family members gave testimonials,
and Dr. Jim Davis, President of CIAN, rendered a special
tribute, and Dr. Tony Cribb, Senior Pastor of Restoration
Church, delivered the closing message.
Another Memorial/Interment Service
was held on Monday, June 12, 2006 at Trinity Memorial Gardens,
New Port Richey, FL. Steven Lambert delivered the eulogy and
officiated the burial ceremony. Several family members and
longtime friends presented testimonials, and Dr. Shirley
Arnold of Tree of Life Ministries (Lakeland, FL) delivered a
special tribute and closing message.
Per his request, both services were
conducted in the mode of a celebration of Pastor Larry's life
and home-going. And at both services, eldest daughter, Becky
Marking, recited some of the final words of wisdom and
exhortation Larry imparted from his hospital bed while going
in an out of consciousness during the final few days.
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1 First Corinthians 15:54,55
2 What A Day That Will Be, Words
& Music by Jim Hill, © 1955, 1983; Ben Speer
Music.
3 Wish You Were Here, Words &
Music by Michael C. Williams, © Four Iron Publishing
4 Ecclesiastes 3:1,2; paraphrased
5 Second Timothy 4:6-9
6 Matthew 25:23
7 Titus 3:1-7